The victim/aggressor cycle is another link in the chain of enslavement.

It is so severe that most individuals are completely unaware that their life is a constant cycle of either being a victim or being an aggressor.

When being a victim they have, of course, someone or something to blame for what happened to them.  And when being an aggressor, they too have blame to give or receive.

Attached to the cycle, is the energy of "savior".

From before birth, to my mid 30s, I experienced a lot of physical, emotional and psychological aggression. It was highly orchestrated and persistent. The aim was to either enslave me as an aggressor or victim, or take me out. It didn't work in that I never identified with either role. It was simply experience.

There were a few times when the pain was so excruciating that I decided to die. I learned two things, one was that my higher self was not letting me die, and the other was that all I had to do was to stop the aggressor by either removing myself from the situation, or removing them from my environment. What was not an option, was to engage them in their game by either feeling victimized, allowing the aggression to continue or becoming an aggressor myself.